Show Us, Don’t Tell Us” — Why Generic Tender Phrases Undermine Trust

It’s one of the most common issues I see in tender responses:

“We always go above and beyond.”
“We pride ourselves on person-centred care.”
“We are passionate about delivering high-quality services.”

These phrases sound great — but they’re scoring you nothing.


🧠 Generic Claims Don’t Build Trust

Commissioners have seen these lines a thousand times. They don’t distinguish you. In fact, they raise red flags:

  • Are you just saying what you think they want to hear?
  • Where’s the evidence that you actually do this?
  • What does this look like in practice?

In a competitive tender, saying you’re good is meaningless unless you can prove it.


✅ What to Do Instead: Be Specific

Instead of saying “we always go above and beyond,” try:

  • “We supported a service user with complex needs to attend a family wedding 200 miles away, coordinating staff cover, transport, and personal care over a weekend.”
  • “After receiving feedback from families, we introduced monthly themed meal nights and now involve residents in planning the menu.”

That’s the difference between a claim and evidence.


📉 Why Tenders Lose Points on Language

Panels don’t score emotion. They score evidence.

So every time you write a statement of intent (“we are committed to...”), ask yourself: Where’s the proof?

Even a short example can raise your credibility dramatically — and set you apart from other providers using copy-and-paste language.


🎯 Final Tip: Pretend You’re Being Audited

If the commissioner asked for proof of what you’ve written, could you give it?

If the answer is no, reframe the sentence. Add a time, place, person or outcome. Make it real. That’s what makes it powerful — and persuasive.


Written by Mike Harrison, Founder of Impact Guru Ltd — specialists in bid writing and strategy for social care providers

Written by Mike Harrison, Founder of Impact Guru Ltd — specialists in bid writing and strategy for social care providers

Visit impact-guru.co.uk to browse downloadable strategies, method statements, or get in touch about tender support.

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