Responding to Self-Harm and Emotional Distress in Autistic Adults Without Restrictive Practice

Self-harm and emotional distress among autistic adults are often met with restrictive responses that escalate risk rather than reduce it. High-quality services align positive risk-taking and risk enablement with mental health and dual diagnosis frameworks to deliver safe, lawful and compassionate support.

This article explores how providers manage self-harm risk through everyday practice, ensuring safety while preserving dignity, autonomy and emotional wellbeing.

Understanding self-harm in autistic adults

Self-harm may serve regulatory, communicative or sensory functions. Without this understanding, services default to control measures that undermine trust and increase distress.

Operational Example 1: Replacing observation with relational safety

Context: Increased self-harm leads to constant observation requests.

Support approach: The service implements relational support instead of surveillance.

Day-to-day delivery detail: Staff provide consistent presence, agreed check-ins and predictable routines.

How effectiveness is evidenced: Reduced incidents and improved emotional regulation.

Operational Example 2: Collaborative safety planning

Context: Risk plans are imposed without the person’s involvement.

Support approach: Safety plans are co-produced and reviewed regularly.

Day-to-day delivery detail: Plans identify early signs, preferred responses and recovery strategies.

How effectiveness is evidenced: Increased use of self-regulation strategies.

Operational Example 3: Staff decision-making under pressure

Context: Staff escalate prematurely during distress.

Support approach: The provider embeds reflective decision-making tools.

Day-to-day delivery detail: Staff use structured prompts to assess necessity, proportionality and alternatives.

How effectiveness is evidenced: Reduced restrictive interventions.

Commissioner and regulator expectations

Commissioner expectation: Commissioners expect evidence of least restrictive practice and proactive risk management.

Regulator / Inspector expectation (CQC): Inspectors expect lawful, person-centred responses that protect rights and wellbeing.

Governance and assurance

Providers must review self-harm incidents, trends and staff responses through governance forums.

Outcomes and impact

Effective responses to self-harm reduce risk, improve trust and demonstrate mature, defensible practice.


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Written by Impact Guru, editorial oversight by Mike Harrison, Founder of Impact Guru Ltd β€” bringing extensive experience in health and social care tenders, commissioning and strategy.

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